After having two children together, they divorced in 2009 and in 2010 Mau admitted she was bisexual when she introduced her girlfriend Karleen Edmonds to the audience at a fundraising event.
"I have fallen in love with a wonderful woman and it was just so unexpected," she was reported to have said at the time.
Media coverage of Mau's same-sex relationship was condemned by Gaynz.com.
"It is an intensely private and personal thing," content editor Jay Bennie told Newshub. "It's been taken out of her hands - it's disgraceful.
"Coming out is an intense process, it is often a difficult and soul-searching process - it's not to be used for public titillation. A person needs to have control over it."
Watch excerpts from the full interview below:
* Anika Moa's All Talk screens on Maori Television on Thursdays at 9.30pm.