Everybody who watches Abducted in Plain Sight, the latest true crime phenomenon on Netflix, has the exact same question. Minus the inevitable handful of swear words: "What were the parents thinking?
Try putting yourself in their shoes for a minute. Your 12-year-old daughter has gone horse riding for the day with a trusted family friend, it's now night time and they still haven't come home. (It's also 1974, so you can't just call or text.)
Do you ring the police straight away? Do you assume they must have got a flat tyre or something and wait until the morning? Or do you do what these guys did and sit on your hands for a full five days before finally reporting it to someone?
I'll do just about anything to avoid talking on the phone and, like the mum, I also live in perpetual fear of ever inconveniencing anybody – "I didn't want to get all these people worked up over nothing," she remembers thinking on the third or fourth day. But I reckon even I would have called the cops a bit sooner.
This is just the start of it, the first five minutes of a documentary that is constantly escalating into darker, weirder, more upsetting and unbelievable territory. It's a story told mostly by the victims, which on one hand provides a certain level of comfort (they're still alive and basically okay now) but on the other hand this is also what makes it so harrowing.