Be there, over and over
The same part of the brain is activated when we visualise an action and when we actually perform the action. That's why mental imagery is used to improve motor learning in rehabilitative settings, such as after a stroke.
In the world of sports, athletes like Serena Williams, Wayne Rooney and Michael Jordan are strong believers in visualisation. Visualising previous successes at crucial moments has several benefits: It prepares athletes for various scenarios and allows them to manage expectations and emotions more effectively. A significant body of scientific evidence shows that the power of visualisation enhances strength, accuracy and endurance, reduces anxiety and increases a sense of control in emergency situations.
When preparing for a big moment at work, rehearse it in your mind with as much clarity and detail as you can. What will it look and feel like to walk into your manager's office and ask for that raise? How do the lights feel as you walk out in front of the audience, into the boardroom, onto the stage or even sign in to Zoom? What will your first words be?
Practice for pressure
Athletes train not only for skills and abilities, but also for pressure. Top coaches introduce mental, technical, tactical and physical competitive stressors by unexpectedly changing the usual conditions. For example, they might force right-footed soccer players to use only their left foot during practice, or introduce better opponents by surprise.
Rehearsing is important, whether you're alone in your office or in front of a camera or crowd. You can raise the stakes by asking your audience to interrupt you, say a negative comment or switch off your computer, forcing you to continue without your supporting slides.
Develop a pre-performance routine
The routines you see and hear before an athlete delivers an important serve in tennis, a free throw in basketball or a penalty kick in soccer have a very important purpose. A pre-performance routine can help you clear your mind, get into the moment and set that well-honed skill to autopilot.
At work, you might develop a short ritual, such as breathing exercises, repeating a phrase or mantra, listening to a particular song, sipping a favourite tea or doing a few stretches, that can get you in the right mindset to tackle those first moments before autopilot can kick in. Once you've got a routine you're comfortable with, you can use it whenever you need to access the knowledge, skills and behaviours you've been trained for. You might also develop a mini routine that you return to when you realize you're choking.
Don't think, just do
Most athletes know that overthinking in the moment can make them doubt themselves or focus too much on every aspect of a movement instead of letting it go, triggering a choke. To avoid this, some athletes opt for self-distraction in the minutes or hours before a race or a game. Listening to music, reading or doing something with your hands to stay out of your head are ways to escape from the surrounding elements and thoughts that could add pressure.
Mindfulness and meditation techniques help train you to acknowledge your surroundings while remaining alert, attentive and present within yourself in the moment. A wealth of research shows how mindfulness and meditation can calm the brain and nervous system, reduce anxiety and improve performance. Simply writing down your fears can also help alleviate them for performance.
Develop a stress mindset
The tennis legend Billie Jean King has said, "Pressure is a privilege." Shifting your mindset from "stress is depleting" to "stress is enhancing" actually changes the way your body responds to it. To do this, next time you're nervous and feel your heart starting to race, don't tell yourself to calm down. Rather, tell yourself you're excited and gearing up for optimal performance.
Rationalise the event and your bumps along the way
It's important to put your performance into perspective, so the anticipated results don't overwhelm your ability to perform. This involves, for example, disconnecting your identity from the results. A loss doesn't mean that you are a loser, and a win doesn't mean that you are a winner. The basketball coach Dawn Stanley has a "24-hour rule" for athletes, allowing them a single day to bask in their victory or agonise over their defeat.
Nobody is immune from choking in a big moment. What we learn from the greatest athletes in the world is that there are behaviours and mindsets we can practice to help prevent a choke and better navigate it when it arrives.
Written by: Alyson Meister and Maude Lavanchy
© The Times of London