Stephen then uses a wonderful personal story to illustrate his point.
Stephen was enjoying a peaceful suburban train ride on a Saturday morning. At the next stop a man got on the train with a number of children. The children began running around the carriage, making a lot of noise and yet the man sat there and did nothing about it.
Stephen could see the other passengers were getting irritated with the disturbance and so he went over to the man. He asked the man if it would be possible to do something about his noisy children as they were disturbing everyone in the carriage.
The man looked up and apologised. He told Stephen that the children and he had just come from the hospital and their mother had just died an hour ago.
He said that neither he nor the children were coping that well. Everyone in the carriage heard the man explain his situation. Suddenly no one was irritated with his noisy children. They all offered sympathy and asked how they could be of help.
As Stephen explained, the situation was still the same. In other words the children were still running around and making a noise.
However the people were no longer concerned about this because they saw the situation differently.
And it's the same in selling.
Sometimes all your client needs is for you to tell them a good story to get them thinking differently.
Example:
I remember speaking to a real estate sales team many years ago.
One thing I wanted them to think differently about was the importance of asking other top salespeople in their company for advice on how to improve sales.
So I asked the question: "Who is the top sales person in your company?"
They all knew who it was. Out of nearly 500 salespeople a gentleman named Barry had been number one for several years.
"Great," I said. "Now how many of you in the last twelve months have rung up Barry and asked if you could spend a couple of minutes with him to get some ideas to improve sales?"
Out of thirteen sales people, not a single one had talked to Barry in the last year.
I then told them a story about a friend I had called Lance who was working for an opposition real estate company in the same suburb as Barry.
Lance had rung Barry a few weeks earlier and asked him if he would mind giving him some advice on a tricky real estate sale. And Barry gladly gave him one hour of his time (for free) to help my friend.
I explained that top sales people in most industries are quite happy to give advice. The big problem is they are rarely asked.
This story was very useful to get this sales team thinking differently about asking the top sales people in their company for advice. (After all if an opposition salesperson could ask for advice and get it, maybe they should ask as well.)
Action Step:
What things do you need your potential customer to think differently about before they can make a buying decision for your product or service?
What stories can you tell that would help them to think along these lines?
Storytelling is the most powerful way to put ideas into the world today.
Robert McKee
Graham McGregor is a marketing consultant and the creator of the 396 page 'Unfair Business Advantage Report.' www.theunfairbusinessadvantage.com (This is free and has now been read by business owners from 11 countries.) You can email Graham on graham@twomac.co.nz