No parent wants to knowingly raise a spoiled child. Yet invariably, when you listen to conversations about the younger generation of today, you hear words such as spoiled, entitled and ungrateful.
There is no universal definition of a spoiled child but there are some common traits we all recognise. Spoiled children tend to be the ones with lots of material possessions and few rules or consequences to limit their behaviour, with parents who lavish them with affection and attention.
Interestingly, the notion of the spoiled child is not new, nor the result of the age of consumerism in which we now live. Writings by prominent authors over the past 150 years show every generation has had similar thoughts about the youth of their times. But while the idea of spoiled children might have existed for a long time, guidelines for how to avoid raising them are thin on the ground. A new book by New York Times columnist Ron Lieber aims to fill the gap by exploring techniques for raising the opposite of a spoiled child - one who grows up to be thrifty and generous, with all the good values associated with unspoiled children.
The Opposite of Spoiled: Raising Kids who are Grounded, Generous and Smart about Money covers money-related aspects of parenting such as allowances (pocket money), when and how to talk to children about money and the "three fundamental pillars of financial decision-making" - whether to spend, to save or to give.