Many clients over the years, both in groups and one-on-one coaching with me, have shared the frustration of trying to keep up with follow-up of some kind — either with hot prospects, referral partners, customers or suppliers. It came up again this morning with Henry, who works in the financial services sector.
He said: 'A lot of our business comes from referral partners. It's important to keep in regular contact with them. However, it's too easy for the good intentions to slip through the net. I get busy and suddenly several weeks (or months) have skidded by without any communication. And then — the spring dries up. I know relationships have to be nurtured, but fitting it in is a challenge.'
One answer is to block in time each week to make this kind of contact: and on one level most people know that. However, it doesn't happen for too many because the task is too big. We need to break down every action to its smallest action unit.
In Simon's case, 'Call x number of referrers' is too big a chunk. He would sit at the desk, look at the diary item, and then think to himself: 'Haven't time. I'll do it tomorrow. '
My very first coaching client, 24 years ago, shared a simple technique that solved this problem. He was the Marketing Manager for a large car franchise. His primary customers were car dealers and he found that his communication with them was too random.