After a blissful few weeks idly spent sleeping late and relaxing at the beach, it's common to feel a sense of dread or anxiety about returning to the demands and stresses of work. These feelings typically occur in the final few days of the summer holidays and can prevent us from enjoying our last precious hours.
Gaynor Parkin, founder and CEO of Umbrella Ltd, is a registered clinical psychologist specialising in workplace resilience and wellness. She cites Harvard research demonstrating that people can spend up to half the day lost in thought about the past or future, which often leads to rumination and worry.
"These unhelpful thought patterns prevent us from experiencing the positives of the present moment and can mean we miss out on precious rejuvenation time at the end of the holidays."
Parkin suggests that any time we catch ourselves thinking about the return to work, we use our senses to re-orientate ourselves back to the present moment, "be it in the smell of a new book, the sound of crashing waves, the warmth of the sun on our skin or a sense of connection with people around us. We need to savour the good stuff."
She also recommends planning ahead so we have things to look forward to throughout the holiday, and if we do need to plan for the return to work, "designate a specific time to do this and boundary it. This helps prevent work thoughts and feelings encroaching on our holiday recovery time."