Once upon a time, I was among the many women who bristled at the idea that there needed to be a certain number of women in politics, on management boards, or anywhere else.
"If they're good enough, they'll make it there on merit!" I'd think, parroting the prevailing mood and ignoring even my own experience of the media, the business world, of life in general.
I'd write stories on female business mentoring schemes and the like, without seeing what was right in front of me - the plethora of amazing female would-be senior managers who struggled to be seen and heard, let alone promoted.
Slowly, I realised that to believe women get the same opportunities to make it in business and politics is to believe we live in a pure meritocracy, which is, like "pure capitalism", a fiction. We recognise this fact in some ways - we ensure there are a certain number of Maori politicians, for example - but when there are attempts to ensure women get a fair suck at the sauce bottle, they are ridiculed and mocked.