"Email is all your stressors in one area, which makes the burnout thing so much harder," he said. "You look at your email and have work stuff, which is the priority, and then rent's due from your landlord and then Netflix bills. And I think that's a really negative way to live your life."
The turning point for Simmons was when a work email from the Seattle Mariners got lost in his spam folder.
"It's actually crazy how outdated it is," he said of email, becoming increasingly animated during the interview that we set up over text. He noted that messages show up in spam that aren't spam and that he has to upload video clips elsewhere before emailing them. "It's painful to use Google Drive."
"Part of the whole reason I don't want to work for someone else is because I don't want to constantly check my email and make sure my boss didn't email me," Simmons said. "That's the most stressful thing."
Inbox stress is, of course, not unique to people born after the email rom-com You've Got Mail hit theatres ('98) or who were entering kindergarten at the dawn of the Gmail era (2004).
In April, in response to a reader callout on pandemic burnout, The New York Times received dozens of messages specifically about email, or what one reader described as "the eternal chore." Another said: "It has, on the worst days, brought me to tears."
Others put it more bluntly: "Every time I get an email, it is like getting stabbed. Another thing for me to do," a student wrote.
The shortcomings of email have only been exacerbated by the pandemic. Decisions that were once made by stopping by a co-worker's desk have been relegated to inbox Ping-Pong. Some people wrote about feeling a sense of guilt for not being able to reply faster or for adding emails to their colleagues' inboxes. Others described how responding to a barrage of emails caused them to lose track of other tasks, creating a cycle that's at best unproductive and at worse infuriating.
"After the email is sent, I have to think hard about where I was and what I was doing. It's the digital equivalent of walking into a room only to forget why you went there," wrote Vishakha Apte, 46, an architect in New York.
Some have been trying to get rid of email for years. Writers like Cal Newport, whose book A World Without Email: Reimagining Work in an Age of Communication Overload was published in March, has long argued that the "tyranny of the inbox" causes us to lose our ability to concentrate. Switching rapidly between email, Slack and other tasks creates a pileup in our brains.
"We also feel frustrated. We feel tired. We feel anxious. Because the human brain can't do it," Newport told the Times' Ezra Klein in March. He has been singing this same song since at least 2016.
In 2017, a study found that the average inbox had 199 unread emails. And here, almost 16 months into remote work for many white-collar employees, inboxes have only become more bloated.
But younger workers, who were disproportionately hard-hit by the instability of the pandemic, appear to be reassessing their professional priorities. And maybe they will really be able to do what the work of Newport — who at 39 is on the elder cusp of millennial — has not been able to do.
Harrison Stevens, 23, started a vintage clothing company while at the University of Oregon and opened a location after graduating in 2020. He started giving clients his personal number and has them text or call him, which he says helps alleviate the load but introduces a new problem of not having clear work-life balance.
Emailing is "almost like a social anxiety people have," Stevens said. "I think a lot of people find it easier and more convenient to send a text than compose an email. It almost feels like there are other eyes looking, like, I have to be so professional in this setting and make sure everything is perfect," he says, noting that there's something less formal about using your fingers and thumbs on a phone keyboard, rather than a computer keyboard.
For some people, adding texting can complicate communication, introducing multiple ways to be expected to get in touch with someone.
Aurora Biggers, 22, a journalist who recently graduated from George Fox University, said she used to give out her number but was getting so many texts that it was infringing on personal time. She thinks her generation is less inclined to use email as their main form of communication. While she likes the work-home boundaries that email offers, she said what she finds most difficult is that there isn't one standard form of communication. The main problem with email then is not necessarily that there is too much of it, but too much competition.
"It's impossible to expect email to be the main form of communication because so many people aren't working office jobs or are sitting in an office with an email notification coming through," she said. "I don't think it's the most relevant way to expect people to communicate with you."
This article originally appeared in The New York Times.
Written by: Sophia June
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