That we feel different about retail these days is evident in the BrandZ Top 100 Most Valuable Global Brands survey, which last year showed only five of the world's 100 most valuable brands are "traditional" retailers - and their rankings are falling.
Retailers are fighting back, but it requires a certain mindset.
Some retailers compete using the "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em" approach. They open for extended hours - not quite 2am, but long enough to suit those customers wanting to shop when they most feel like it. They offer free, no-questions-asked returns just like online retailers and they let people browse without feeling compelled to buy.
Some stores actually encourage "showrooming", where customers look around a store, try out the product and then make their purchase online.
Some have real-time customer reviews of products available in kiosks or on mobile apps, so customers can see what others think while they are showrooming. Apparently this is important - 88 per cent of consumers trust online reviews as much as personal recommendations.
Other retailers are firing the slingshot at the online Goliath by perfecting client service. They offer customers a unique experience they can't get online.
Which brings me to my lovely shopping experience. My husband and I visited an independent menswear store in Napier we remembered fondly. We came away with multiple shirts and several pairs of trousers, when one of each would have sufficed. We were not the only ones to be swayed by the great service offered. The owner told us two-thirds of his sales came from customers living outside the region, who made a beeline for his store precisely to take advantage of his unique service.
It's the little things that make the difference, like the romantic description of the Italian village where the fabric is sourced, the advice about a cut of trouser that won't bag at the knees after a couple of wears, or assistance in finding a pair of popular jeans that didn't look like jodhpurs on my husband.
Exceptional client service needn't just be about a great sales assistant. It is about finding the x-factor that makes customers want to come back.
British supermarket operator Waitrose also uses exceptional client service. Their myWaitrose loyalty cardholders can choose 10 products on which they can save 20 per cent every time they buy them. They have a choice of 1000 products including staple items and "special" treats - and they get a free tea or coffee each time they shop.
It used to be that a strong brand was sufficient to enable retailers to differentiate themselves and thrive. Nowadays, brand doesn't cut it - but outstanding client service will always win out.
This column is presented in association with Fisher Funds