One gift with the most impact is one that is carefully selected to incorporate strong personal touches.
Among these, I noticed that a particularly big hit this time was a lovely photo album that compiled memories of a fun year.
Another winner, also for people who are really hard to shop for and who are of a "certain age," is an elegantly designed his and hers fountain pen set.
Jewelry and travel fit in this category, but in the (much) higher risk/higher return segment. The goal is to get your loved ones items that they really want but hesitate to get it for themselves. To make this work, you need a lot of information; and you should start gathering intelligence well before the holidays.
Avoid fancy shoes, even if your recipients really need them.
While you may be completely confident about the style (a big assumption), getting the right size is very hard. The last thing you want is to be responsible for sending your recipient back to overcrowded stores after the holidays for an exchange.
Professional investors should approach gift-giving in same way they think of portfolio construction. Some diversification can prove both risk-mitigating and return-enhancing. In this regard, a well-constructed barbell approach can be a lot better than simply multiplying the "average gift."
One gift with the most impact is one that is carefully selected to incorporate strong personal touches.
In particular, consider a combination of a really nice present and a series of small and, yes, silly ones.
The holistic nature of the experience is also important. Specifically, how you give your gifts is an important complement to what you give.
For example, a handwritten note has far more meaning than those impersonal from/to stickers, no matter how fancy they are. Similarly, a well-wrapped gift is better than gift bags (and if, like me, you worry about your wrapping skills, use paper with those helpful grids on the flip side). And, when it comes to multiple gifts, sequence them, keeping the best one for the end; and don't hesitate to have some of the silly ones, maybe even labeled as coming from the pets.
With these tips and the associated learning process, my future gift-giving should be much less fraught with anxiety. That is good news. Unfortunately, the improvement would be a relative one: In absolute terms, the gift-giving aspect of the holidays will remain nerve-wracking.
Happy New Year to all. Thank you for reading my Bloomberg View columns in 2016.
May 2017 bring lots of happiness, health and success to you and your families.
El-Erian is a Bloomberg View columnist. He is the chief economic adviser at Allianz SE and chairman of the President's Global Development Council, and he was chief executive and co-chief investment officer of Pimco. His books include "The Only Game in Town: Central Banks, Instability and Avoiding the Next Collapse."