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Why watching people destroy expensive items is so addictive
Russian fashionistas have sparked debate after destroying their designer handbags.
Nicola Alpe: Top 4 ways to avoid a family hell-iday
A family holiday is on the cards for many: Here's how to prevent it becoming a hell-iday.
Should we be shocked by Prince William's Commonwealth call?
Not how the Queen would roll, is Prince William's latest move the refresh we need?
Opinion: Penis pics, TikTok and vaping: How to parent in 2022
Nicola Alpe imparts four wise points on navigating life as a modern parent.
Opinion: Sometimes all you need is a good cry
Shedding a few tears when times are tough is actually good for you.
Four signs that you've become a geriatric millennial
A vibe shift is afoot, writes Nicola Alpe. Are geriatric millennials ready for it?
Opinion: Why some relationships are made to end
"Relationships last for a reason, a season or a lifetime. The key is knowing which."
Why fertility is the new inequality
And why regular women the world over are being given false hope.
Why the Queen is the original Boss Lady
She may be 95 but Nicola Alpe outlines why she's surprisingly relatable to modern women.
The trouble with aspiring to a celebrity-inspired love life
Why Machine Gun Kelly and Megan Fox levels of intensity should come with a warning.
The secret skills of an extremely productive person
Why are some people seemingly so much more productive than others?
Why, like Michelle Obama, I joined the 4am club
Could waking up three hours early solve my problem with a lack of time and personal space?
What Kate and other 40yo women have to look forward to
Nicola Alpe on how to make the most of this decade in your life.
New Year's resolutions that beat weight loss and tidying up
Nicola Alpe points us in a more admirable direction for 2022.
Opinion: What not to do this Christmas
This Christmas will be one like no other - here's how to make the most of it.
Ranking the royal family: Who reigned supreme in 2021?
Nicola Alpe reveals which royal came out on top this year in her view.
The gifts we should be giving this Christmas
With retail supply issues and time running out, a gift voucher could save Christmas.
Nicola Alpe: Why humour is the sexiest quality
Humour is one of the most important parts of any relationship, writes Nicola Alpe.
Opinion: The team of one million Kiwis overseas need to do more
Here's why you should hold on to your NZ passport.
Nicola Alpe: When did being in the PTA become a bad thing?
OPINION: A friend was convinced I was now Christina Applegate's character in Bad Moms.
Nicola Alpe: Has Covid stolen my identity?
When lockdowns are behind us, will we even remember the glamorous selves we once were?
Opinion: Is it time to swap daycare for a nanny?
Parents shouldn't be shamed for their choice of childcare, writes Nicola Alpe.
Opinion: Will lockdown make life easier for mums?
For our working mums lockdown could see us make a silk purse from a sow's ear.
Divorce: Should women keep their married name?
Nicola Alpe on keeping the name of a family you're no longer part of.
Opinion: Why is it harder to say fat than f***?
Nicola Alpe: I don't want fat to be a word my daughter uses to measure her worth.
Opinion: How to avoid disaster on your wedding day
Wedding season is fast approaching - here's how to ensure the big day is a success.
Opinion: Why you'll never be a 'perfect' parent
It's easy to feel like a hypocrite when it comes to raising our kids, writes Nicola Alpe.
Nicola Alpe: What I've learned about myself from homeschool parenting
Our brief taste of educating our kids may make us more aware of how we treat teachers.
Opinion: Zoom fatigue is real - here's how to avoid it
Nicola Alpe: Working from home blurs the lines between your work and social life.
Nicola Alpe: Stop telling women to 'be kind'
Nicola Alpe: In 2021, why is the message 'be kind' still so female-focused?
Why Gen Zs have more in common with boomers than they think
Nicola Alpe: Applaud Gen Z's activism, but don't forget what their grandparents achieved.
Nicola Alpe: Is the nappy debate woke gone mad or decent parenting advice?
I now take extra notice of the way I speak to our daughter, writes Nicola Alpe.
Nicola Alpe: The best sustainable household swaps
After attempting Plastic Free July, Nicola Alpe shares her top tips for sustainable swaps.
Opinion: Why are we so bad at self-care?
There's nothing wrong with taking care of yourself - so why do we find it so difficult?
Opinion: The problem with 'wine mum' culture
Nicola Alpe: It's time to rethink the way we drink - and not just for Dry July.
Opinion: Why I feel sorry for Kim Kardashian
The sight of Kim K on her Roman holiday pulled at my heartstrings, writes Nicola Alpe.
Opinion: How hitting 'unfollow' can make you happier
Nicola Alpe: Letting go of the likes can make our busy lives a whole lot easier.
Opinion: Unconventional advice for a lasting marriage
Nicola Alpe: Ten years of trial and error later, I've learned what makes marriage last.
Opinion: Why it's time to reinvent yourself
Since Covid-19 hit, the entire world has undergone a reset - here's why you should too.
Are cellphones killing our conversations?
Remember when you could go on holiday without having to constantly check your phone?
What you really need to know about hosting a winter dinner party
Here's a step-by-step guide to avoiding dinner party disasters, writes Nicola Alpe.
Opinion: Yes, I'm a 'cheug' and proud of it
Forget the 'cheugy' label - I can have a side part and wear mom jeans, writes Nicola Alpe.
How using your partner's love language can help you get what you want
Not getting what you need from your partner? Maybe it's time to try another love language.
Why Mum doesn't want candles and slippers this Mother's Day
Opinion: Turns out it doesn't need to cost a thing to spoil mum this Mother's Day.
The hardest part about navigating the school holidays
OPINION: Travelling with kids can be a nightmare - here's how to have a smoother flight.
Opinion: Why embracing boredom is key these school holidays
It's okay if all your school holiday plans go out the window, writes Nicola Alpe.
Opinion: How to talk to your kids about OnlyFans
With platforms like OnlyFans on the rise, kids' online safety is more important than ever.
Why my child doesn't believe in the Easter Bunny
It's time to focus on what Easter is really all about - chocolate, writes Nicola Alpe.
Opinion: Why we shouldn't pay our kids to do chores
Opinion: Kiwi kids are growing up not knowing how to do basic household tasks.
Opinion: How comparison is harming your kids
Did anyone else look at George and Charlotte's handwriting and start feeling insecure?
Opinion: Why it's time to bring back the bush
It's important that our daughters grow up unashamed of their bodies, writes Nicola Alpe.
Opinion: Why we should celebrate International Women's Day
This year, let's celebrate the capable, creative and resilient women we all know.
Five parenting hacks to get you through the preschool years
Parenting preschoolers can be hectic - here are a few shortcuts to make life easier.
How to build a child's resilience during a pandemic
It's more important than ever that we raise our kids to be mentally strong - but how?
Opinion: Are dogs the new status symbol of 2021?
'Is the dog the sign of a healthy bank account wrapped up in a fluffy, cheerful package?'
Opinion: When did parents start 'lunch box shaming' each other?
The back-to-school lunchbox has become another minefield for parents to navigate.