Louise Thompson is a columnist for Bite.
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How to find your passion with logic
Follow the feel of whatever is interesting, writes Louise Thompson.
What to do when boundaries are being broken
Today, third and fourth Cs around boundaries Consequences and Choices.
What to do when your boundaries aren't respected
Boundaries are an area pretty much everyone can benefit from a tune-up.
Louise Thompson: What are boundaries?
What are boundaries? It's a question I am asked with cunning regularity.
Four tips for better concentration and focus
Four last tips to get you working with more concentration and focus.
Productivity hacks for work
Here are two more techniques on overcoming procrastination at work.
Productivity boost: Deal with those 'old chestnuts'
Two more tips from life coach Louise Thompson on boosting your productivity.
Declutter to be more productive
Today we are looking at decluttering as a direct productivity booster.
How to be more productive at work
Louise Thompson has her first tip in her new productivity series for work/life balance.
Can you drink yet still be health-conscious?
OPINION: Can you drink the odd mojito and still be someone who nourishes your wellbeing?
How to always look on the bright side
Every problem gives us an opportunity to work out our feelgoodry perspective.
Opinion: Look around once in a while
Let's take a moment today to stop and look around at what brings us joy.
Why we need to stop judging others
How can we dial down how concerned we are with other people judging us?
Five quick tips to boost winter wellbeing
Five quick tips to boost your wellbeing as the cold weather draws in.
Why we shouldn't dispute unfairness
OPINION: Unfair things happen every day, but disputing them holds us in the trauma.
Why discipline is actually about choice
Discipline is about choosing when there is a choice to be made.
Stop telling yourself bad bedtime stories
The stories we tell ourselves have the capacity to destroy our peace of mind.
Opinion: If you could see what I see
Life coach Louise Thompson wants to help others see what she can see in them.
Louise Thompson: Wisdom without words
OPINION: Sometimes using your intuition leads to blow-your-socks-off stories.
'Don't keep serving people from your cup'
Opinion: As much as you get joy from loving others, I bet you get depleted too.
How to change your thinking to love life
"If you think that life is a never ending struggle then that's what it's going to be."
Why you shouldn't fear criticism
OPINION: There is nothing that can more quickly burst your bubble over a splendid plan you are cooking up than worrying about what everyone else will think.
How to be an incomplete success
OPINION: The lesson in these tales is that we tend to take score way too early, writes Louise Thompson.
Louise Thompson: Easy go, easy come
You know that thing you are wresting with, that just sort of won't happen no matter how hard you try? Finding a new partner. Landing
Opinion: Living with the glass half full
OPINION: Defining our reality though a lens of either optimism or pessimism is a choice we all get to make over and over again each day. How do we want to approach the world?
Opinion: Expect the best - but believe in the worst
When you believe in people they rise to meet, and often to exceed, your expectations.
Why you should flex your happy muscle
COMMENT: For a happy life we need a strong Happiness Muscle. A resilient muscle that doesn't tire easily, and can be recruited in all sorts of situations, writes Louise Thompson.
What will you give up to achieve your goals?
COMMENT: Once you have decided what you want in 2017 ask yourself what you are prepared to give up to get it, writes Louise Thompson.
Louise Thompson: Back-to-work blues? Try this technique
When we are stuck on the hamster wheel of doing, doing, doing, it can be hard to get the bigger picture we need to see what's truly working for us and what's not.
Assessing how you really feel after your summer holiday
The thing with the luxurious long summer break is that we sink into it and feel so good that we forget how life rolls the rest of the year.
Louise Thompson: Goodbye 2016
2016 - what a year it has been! We said goodbye to Bowie, Prince and Ali. We said hello to Auckland's Real Housewives, Brexit and
Why you are never 'too busy' for others
Life has never been busier. But if a relationship is truly important and of value, we will find a way to make time and make it work.
The secret to getting through tough times
Five more strategies on cultivating resilience and how to bend not break when going through a tough time.
How to be more resilient
Learning how to boost our resiliency equips us to better ride the inevitable waves of adversity that life throws at us.
Louise Thompson: Stop waiting
How about we stop with the waiting? If we are not mindful, happiness can be deferred for so many good, and not so good, reasons.
Opinion: Hold on when you want to let go
As your friendly neighbourhood Life Coach, I am often asked how to "let go". How to let go of past hurt. Betrayal. Abandonment. Lack
How to resign from your job - without resigning
Before you decide to resign from your job, think about resigning from some of the aspects of the role that are making you unhappy.
How to resign from your job
One of the great pleasures of my job is seeing smart, courageous people leave the jobs that have been sucking at their souls, or that
Are you a giver? Here's some tips on how to not get burnt out
Are you one of life's givers? It's not wrong to take once in a while so, here are two golden rules that givers need to bear in mind so they don't burn out.
Part two: Are you suffering from 'life envy'?
Last week we dipped into the uncomfortable but all-too-familiar sensation of life envy. That "grass is greener, why is it so easy
Are you suffering from 'life envy'?
Louise Thompson explains how easy it is to find yourself coveting other people's lives. And shares some top tips for being grateful for your own.
Wellness: the important aspects we overlook
We all know people who "eat clean" and are impressively diligent with the preparation of each meal, but who are routinely miserable, or stressed to the max.
Louise Thompson: Don't be afraid to leave your job
COMMENT: At some point there comes a time where we have to believe in and back our own levels of capability that we can move to a new situation.
Louise Thompson: Passion vs courage
What is it that allows some people to harness their passion, to follow it almost effortlessly, yet it's such a struggle for many others?
Louise Thompson: How to make a brave change
Four things you need to know when contemplating big, bold, brave new moves.
Thompson: Start your day right - Part 3
Here are two more strategies which combine with the six strategies from previous weeks.
Start your day right - Part 2
Here are three more strategies to combine with last week's to help you take control and create a morning routine that will help you start your day right.
Louise Thompson: Start your day right
You know how sometimes the day can just start off all wrong, and then go rapidly downhill from there?
Louise Thompson: A plateful of compassion
When I first moved here from the UK I didn't get the bring-a-plate thing. Not only did I not get it, I hated it, writes Louise Thompson.
Louise Thompson: Happy people know how to thrive
There. Is. No. "Arrived". Arrived is a destination that does not exist.
Louise Thompson: Being happy on purpose
Debunking the myth that happy people are naturally lucky and stuff magically goes their way.
Opinion: A tale of two mindsets
Here's a thing that happy people know, whether they consciously know they know it or not: they know that happiness is an entirely subjective reality.
Happy people don't make excuses
Happy people are committed to being happy and successful, and less happy people are generally only interested in being happy. The difference is massive.
All the things happy people don't do
We spend a lot of time here talking about how to be happy, and what happy people think and do to be happy, writes Louise Thompson.
Blog: Realign your integrity
This week I would like you to do an Integrity Inventory with your good and gorgeous self. It's simple but it's not easy.