I HAVE been thinking a lotabout the two acts of terrible violence that have dominated the news over the last week.
One occurred on the other side of the world, the other closer to home; both were theoutcome of unlawful acts allegedly perpetrated by people belonging to organised groups characterised by a disregard for civilised behaviour.
If the conversations I havebeen joined to are any indication, another common thread is that both events have impacted at a personal level on Rotorua people.
Violent deaths always raise questions. The first usually arise from an effort to process the shock, questions such as: "How can people do such terrible things?" Later, we move to the "how can we fix this" type questions; such as: "What can we do to stop this recurring?"
The late Stephen Covey, one of the great thinkers of our time, said one of the keys to being effective was understanding the list of things we were concerned about was nearly always longer than the list of things we could influence, so we should focus on those we could influence.