"Bro, Prest would you like a cuppa?"
"Yes please Ngahi, I'll have a tea please."
My brother Preston and other members of our Bidois whanau, including Kim Ngarue Ratapu, had come to the Awahou Marae to do our pohiri and karakia for our te reo Maori students from the Palmerston North programme that Carolyn and I were students on. Earlier Uncle Mita Mohi had given us a korero on the wharenui and everyone had just gone back into the whare after supper while I chilled with my whanau. I was reflecting on how cool it was to be back at the marae when my brother Preston interrupted me. "Nga, bro where you going?" He pointed in the opposite direction. "Gee you been away too long all right. The cups are out that way now."
He was right. I had left Rotorua over seven years ago to attend Massey University on the Tu Tangata scheme. The last time I had been back at the marae was when my mum Doreen passed away in my second year. So this visit was very timely and as well as learning te reo Maori I was also learning my Ngati Rangiwewehi whakapapa and tribal history.
Soon after our return to Palmerston North our te reo Maori programme had a visit from a kaumatua named Te Ao Peehi who was recruiting students for Palmerston North Teachers College. Carolyn decided she was going to attend Massey University to continue her te reo Maori journey by doing a Bachelor of Arts in Management Information systems and Maori studies. She and a few other students bailed me up and convinced me to change careers from business to education.