Every written article, letter, poem, story, email, memo, script, thesis, book and even this publication from the Rotorua Daily Post started with an empty page. I remember a newspaper editor once remarking that every publication starts from nothing.
Every newspaper they published depended on what could be created by the hands of their reporters and writers, which in turn came from the stories created in their local community and events of the day worldwide.
Our lives are no different. We begin our lives, stories and journey with an empty page. We are our own reporters. We determine what we want our story to look like and how we will use our lives to write our final story known as our epitaph.
The Maori proverb "He kai kei aku ringa" is often said by those who recognise that their destiny is in their hands and their success is highly dependent on how they use the skills and resources available to them. They know that the writing of their life story and their success depends on the decisions, effort and opportunities they make. As an international leadership speaker I have seen this proverb applied by all of the outstanding leaders I have met who enjoy huge successes in their lives. One of my speaker buddies often says "If it is to be, it is up to me".
I have also observed that most successful people choose not to go down the "blame others" path. They take full responsibility for their actions and outcomes. I have heard countless stories from leaders who continually forgive and move on, but choose not to forget so they learn the lesson learned from their mistakes regarding others.
