I'm not a high-profile New Zealander so I wasn't one of the 50 women who penned an open letter to the Prime Minister calling for more to be done to stop violence against women.
The letter, prompted by the tragic death of English tourist Grace Millane two weeks ago, asked the Prime Minister to work across parties to find solutions, provide better support services for women who have been attacked, and for more public awareness campaigns.
I wouldn't have signed the letter if asked. I would rather see this level of concern and reaction when one of our own is killed. I think governments can only do so much. I believe the previous National Government was, and our current Labour-led Government is, working hard in this area to bring about a reduction in violence towards women. But it is a community response, and the collective impact that follows, that will one day be the circuit breaker for violence against women. In New Zealand, domestic and sexual violence is dished out to hundreds of women in their homes every week. Sadly it is embedded in our psyche, part of New Zealand's DNA.
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Grace's had only been in the country for a few days. Allegedly murdered, her tragic death has caused outrage here. Sadness too as we saw with the outpouring of grief at the vigils held around the country. Why nothing like this, for the 10 women killed this year in New Zealand.