Don't you just love a good debate? I was out of town this week to adjudicate a debate that included two political party leaders in the debating teams. Don't assume politicians have the upper hand when it comes to debating. They don't. Some are good, some need more practice.
Sometimes the topic is humorous and sometimes serious. Research is often undertaken to support the arguments put forward by the team hell bent on winning while the other side may take a more relaxed "once over lightly" approach. Debates can be fun if you don't take them too seriously.
There are those who thrive in a debating environment and cultivate a strong line of attack. They have cleverly learnt to counter-punch the views of their opponents. I think this is a skill we don't see too much of today.
And the first rule of good debating is never to take things personally. I have witnessed more than a few cases of members getting up and actually walking out on their debating team because they got so wound up and upset, with what was meted out by the other side.
I can never understand this. It's a debate, for goodness' sake. Have the debate, discussion or conversation even - but never take it personally. When that happens, you are already on slippery ground. Your ability to think clearly, comprehend exactly what's being said and, more importantly, frame relevant responses succinctly is greatly compromised. That's what happens when we let emotions get the better of us.