It was an afternoon of connection for those in Rotorua Library while Russian-born and Whangārei-raised Alex Gilbert spoke.
His backstory is interesting and it's the reason he spoke but his only hope is that in doing so, he can provide support for those going through a similar situation to his.
Gilbert was adopted by Whangārei parents Janice and Mark Gilbert in 1994 with his adoptee brother, Andrei, from the top of the world at Arkhangelsk orphanage, in Russia.
But it was five years ago that it became a mission for him to reunite with his birth parents, despite language, culture and distance appearing to divide them.
In the end he discovered it only made their connection stronger.