"It was very difficult to see, especially for his children."
Those are the words of Rosa Hulton, whose son Diego Hulton was killed in 2017.
As if losing a loved one was not hard enough, the family are now dealing with Diego's headstone at Kauae Cemetery being vandalised.
Last Thursday, the family were informed of the vandalism and upon checking for themselves found the headstone ripped from its foundations and the photos attached to it smashed.