When you lose a close family member or friend, it's hard enough.
Add to that the mystery of why you are forced to be in such pain, and it's probably unbearable.
Spare a thought for the family of Israel Jack.
They had to bury the 20-year-old after he died on Te Ngae Rd in Rotorua on August 18. How and why he died is a mystery.
All the police know is his body was found on Te Ngae Rd after an emergency call reporting he had been struck by a vehicle about 4.25am. So far the investigation has established at least two vehicles had struck him. He was lying prone on the road on both occasions.