Tragedy and disaster can bring out the best in people, but also the worst, to the extent that many forget the shattered lives and random deaths at the centre of it all.
It didn't take long after Tuesday's bombing in Boston which killed three people for several trolls to take to social media wondering why the media are so interested in it.
Especially, they said, on the same day dozens died in Iraq and the US bombed an Afghan wedding party, killing 30.
Many missed the fact the wedding bombing actually happened more than 10 years ago.
But the original question is valid: why are three deaths in Boston so much more interesting to us than three dozen deaths in the Middle East?