I was a bit ho-hum when told about free antenatal classes a few years when I was expecting my first baby.
My midwife told me they would give us the basics of childbirth and how to look after a newborn plus there was the opportunity to network with other mums-to-be to share experiences and possibly form a support group.
It all sounded a bit waffly to me. I had plenty of friends and family to help with the baby and didn't think I needed to go along.
But despite my misgivings, we checked it out. I was so glad I did.
The "coffee group" we formed as a result of the Rotorua Parents Centre antenatal group are now a group of mates I consider my life-long buddies. Yes, I have plenty of good mates, but when you're a new mum, only other new mums going through the same experience know how you are feeling. Quite often you think everything is going wrong and your baby isn't sleeping or feeding like they should.