I was a bit ho-hum when told about free antenatal classes a few years when I was expecting my first baby.
My midwife told me they would give us the basics of childbirth and how to look after a newborn plus there was the opportunity to network with other mums-to-beto share experiences and possibly form a support group.
It all sounded a bit waffly to me. I had plenty of friends and family to help with the baby and didn't think I needed to go along.
But despite my misgivings, we checked it out. I was so glad I did.
The "coffee group" we formed as a result of the Rotorua Parents Centre antenatal group are now a group of mates I consider my life-long buddies. Yes, I have plenty of good mates, but when you're a new mum, only other new mums going through the same experience know how you are feeling. Quite often you think everything is going wrong and your baby isn't sleeping or feeding like they should.
Just when you think you've got the worst child in the world, you head along to a coffee group catch-up only to discover everyone else is going through the same thing. It can be so reassuring.
Today, we report the free antenatal classes are to be a thing of the past from September 30 after changes to the way the Lakes District Health Board allocates its funding. After then, they will only be able to provide free classes to those who are considered high needs.
This means your average parents-to-be will miss out on free courses.
The Lakes District Health Board has said the funding would go to those who needed additional support with parenting and life skills.
While antenatal classes will still be held for those willing to pay, like anything, if it's not free, many will put it in the "luxury" basket and will simply give it a miss.
While it's great high needs parents are getting extra attention, it shouldn't be at the expense of the average Kiwis who are prepared to do their best for their children.
