The message was clear at the Rotorua Youth Centre on Saturday.
From 10am to 4pm, it hosted performances, food stalls, activities and workshops centred around the motto "Be who you want to be" to mark Youth Week 2018.
Co-ordinator Semu Filipo said he took a step back and the Youth Centre Leadership Krew organise the Cultural Youth Fest to celebrate diversity.
"As adults, we think we know what they want," he said.
Born and bred in Rotorua, Filipo said it was difficult to acknowledge his Samoan and Tokelauan roots and he had a strong affiliation to Māori culture instead.