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Supper clubs are gathering steam, so what does it take to host one?
Carly Gibbs pulls up a chair to learn how they work.
Dress code 'smart-casual': How to get the look right and still be professional
Some office workers say they aren’t paid enough to look 'fly'.
'I'm just going to say it as it is': New Georgia Lines album shares vulnerability
The songs were written during some personally challenging times.
Why for some people, answering a call is a ‘fate worse than death’
'Telephonophobia', a type of social anxiety, is common amongst Gen Z and Millennials.
Meet the Kiwi bodyguards protecting NZ’s rich and famous
Clients have safe rooms, intruder detection, CCTV, drivers, and kidnap protection plans.
'Who keeps the fur baby?' How not to traumatise your dog in a break-up
By law, pets are considered chattels — items of property — and subject to equal division.
'Situationships', 'throuples', 'ethical non-monogamy': The shift in modern relationships
People like to think sex can be void of emotion, but the reality is often different.
‘Beautiful the way you are’: The challenges of mothering an adolescent daughter
Tween life coaching is already prominent in the USA, and in NZ the need is growing.
'Where did my food come from?': Can you do 12 months of NZ-only food?
Before you collectively sigh at the 'woke term', know it's not a new fad.
Hungry and at home: How to keep teens filled up during the holidays
Teaching adolescents to cook - and cook creatively - is a skill for life.
Fighting insomnia? One thing will help more than sleeping pills
Nearly all NZers experience some degree of acute insomnia throughout their lifetime.
Low and slow - how this barbecue cooking style is overtaking gas four-burners
A Bay duo offer masterclasses aimed at the would-be 'barbecue god or goddess'.
Long lunches, jazz and a 'bun in a bottle': How you can eat, drink and be entertained this Easter
A list of some of our favourite venues to raise your glass, dine and be entertained.
Bay of Plenty holidays: How to make a staycation feel like an actual holiday
Airbnb-ing is not within everyone’s budget, so here's how to have fun at home.
‘I was a d***head on the piss’: Former drinkers get real about alcoholism
A silly season sobriety survival guide from people who've been there.
The ultimate Christmas gift guide for your favourite foodies
Plus, seven cheap presents you can make in your kitchen.
Three Kiwi sustainable swimwear brands to watch, including the world’s first zero-waste label
The fashion industry has been known as the second-biggest polluter in the world.
Fishing, house-hunting: Bill Bailey on his love affair with NZ and his nationwide tour
Bailey has looked at real estate here, saying he has thought about moving.
How each Kiwi household wastes $1510 of food a year - and how to stop it
Grocery shopping or buying takeaways when the fridge isn't empty needs to stop.
The chore war: How working couples can make peace on the home front
Some women feel they have to 'parent' their male partners, which is a 'turn-off'.
Why more teens are heading down a path of anxiety, depression
Dr Jo Prendergast advocates “benign neglect”, where parents intentionally step back.
Social media lights a fire under envy
More people want to keep up with the Joneses “including the Joneses themselves".
Morgana O'Reilly's one-woman sell-out show
With her having performed the show over 50 times, it will soon be made into a film.
10 ways to make the most of daylight saving in the Bay of Plenty
Drinks, food, activities: we've got your extra daylight hours covered.
Stylists' tips: Noughties revival in spring fashion trends
A few Y2K trends are reemerging thanks to fashion’s cyclical nature.
How to catch a cheater: Private investigators' tips for spotting the red flags
Investigators say a spouse’s gut instinct that something isn’t right is usually correct.
10 of the best: Where to take Dad this Father’s Day (or any day, for that matter)
From the gamer to the luxe-life lovin', we've got the many types of dads covered.
'Absolute force': Live storytelling event honours late founder's legacy
As event honours Dawn Picken, her close friend shares a cruel twist in her own life.
Four top chefs share their number-one tip for home cooks
They will exhibit at the Tauranga Food Show, which marks its 10th anniversary next week.
Popular Kiwi Instagram gardener's tips for vege patches big and small
Her how-to book spawned out of her popular Instagram page @mrs.evans.garden.
The Ginaissance: How distilleries here work to stand out in the craft spirit crowd
'A lot of beer and wine drinkers are leaning towards gin these days.'
'A complete turnaround’: Demand for overseas holidays soars
The past year has surpassed a "bumper" 2019 travel year by 25 per cent.
The silent change: What to expect when going through perimenopause
BIG READ: Dr Linda Dear labels perimenopause a "blind spot".
Dad pods: Unedited, quick-witted, dad banter
There hasn’t been a dad-led podcast in NZ until now, and nothing is off the table.
‘Special but difficult’: Bic Runga reflects on hit album Beautiful Collision, 20 years later
Bic on her shows: "I hope people find it cathartic and maybe nostalgic.'
Lonely? How to make a new best friend in adulthood
While you can ask someone, “Are you single?”, there's no question, “Are you friended?”
‘I’m not giving every waking hour’: Meet the employees who are quiet quitting
The phrase means doing what you're paid to do, without going 'above and beyond'.
Hunting for the black gold
Big read: Their property has proven to be one of the highest per tree producers.
60 million streams: Rotorua songwriter to release first full-length album
Praise comes worldwide for singer-songwriter Alayna Powley.
Making steak an art form: How Mount restaurant made world’s top 101 steak list
Forget plain steak, Mount restaurant serves carnivore artistry.
Mums over 40 - what it's like having a baby later in life
The number of NZ women having babies over age 40 has remained stable in the last 10 years.
For the love of old clothes: Why thrifting for vintage is so hot right now
Thrifting has grown from op shop drop-offs to Instagram accounts reselling vintage.
'To be able to say we’re married is big': Couples celebrate 10 years after marriage law changed
The law meant NZers could marry regardless of sex, sexual orientation or gender identity.
One man’s $30,000 mission to adopt a Mexican street dog and bring her to NZ
BIG READ: Bringing a rescue dog into NZ is a "real commitment".
How chef became the Bay’s sausage ‘boss’
Pagani arrived in NZ not speaking a word of English but his skills spoke volumes.
Luka Connor: 'I knew 1000 per cent I wanted to be a Black Fern'
She's 'just a small-town girl' blazing a trail for other girls to follow.
Who Loves Who the Most: Dance Exponents take on The Exponents, in a national tour celebrating 40 years of music
The 11-stop tour celebrates 40 years since their debut album Prayers Be Answered.
Expectant dad starts men-only classes for conversations about fatherhood
Simon Street hopes to create a safe space and a “flowing kaupapa” for fathers to share.
‘It’s cool to be a Kiwi’: The Black Seeds’ Barnaby Weir on the band’s 25th anniversary; the longevity of their distinctive sound
The Black Seeds will bring their reggae-funk beats to Tauranga in March, for First We Eat.
'Te ao Māori is compelling': Chefs Kārena and Kasey Bird on their new project
The sisters preserve and blend traditional Māori cooking techniques with modern twists.
Your 2023 wellness starter guide: Tips for relationships, parenting, finances and work
New Zealanders are tired after a tough 2020, 2021 and 2022.
‘I can buy myself flowers’: Singletons on self-love; couples on what makes long-term relationships tick
Q&A: couples and singles share their thoughts on relationships ahead of Valentine's Day.
Q&A: L.A.B discuss their summer tour, and leaving egos at the door
L.A.B: 'We feel like we're making some of the best songs we've ever done.'
21 great Christmas gift ideas from local businesses
NZ-made: Support locals this Christmas with these Bay of Plenty gift ideas.
Top chefs share their recipe secrets for Christmas Day lunch
Your print-out and keep guide: Chefs and bartenders share their Christmas recipe secrets.
'The last stretch in a marathon': Tips for surviving until Christmas break
Here comes Santa Claus: Tips to survive until holiday time, including managing stress.
Seniors reckon there's no fun in staying at home 'sawing sawdust'
'All around the bush, there are a lot of old fullas, and they're still going,' says Smith.
'Fat is not a naughty word': Plus-size shoppers call for change
Reader opinion: Many plus-size items are 'ugly', more expensive, and ill-fitting.
Woodland wonderland to shine at Bay of Plenty Garden and Art Festival
'A serious backdrop to my life': Heather Loughlin begins prepping 18 months out.
Photographer showcases 'raw and real' portraits of 40 NZ women over 40
Women are notoriously hard on themselves and this is about letting go of perfection.
How an ovarian cancer survivor is helping survivors get their 'mana' back
Cancer survivor's feel-good move to help others who've battled the disease.
Sex, betrayal and dysfunction: What really goes on behind a sex therapist's walls
Sex is "the play of adults" and shouldn't go to the bottom of the priority list.
Your guide to daylight saving: Sleep, barbecues, flower planting, and the perfect party dress
The changing of the clocks: Clocks move forward an hour on Sunday for daylight saving.
Matamata to Manhattan to the Mount: Kiwi artist talks about his travels and sober reinvention
Paul Darragh on why switching from a design career to fine arts meant proving himself.
Moonwalking and mayonnaise: What they have to do with reducing your cleaning time
Pantyhose, lemons and mayonnaise: Your cheap house cleaning must-haves.
Why not adopt? Giving a rescue dog a home can make you feel like a 'hero'
Adoption know-how: Why rescue dogs need your help, and how to prepare.
Doughnut caskets, forward planning, DIY coffins: How some are breaking the funeral mould
Art caskets, conscience clearing and tech innovation: funerals aren't what they used to be
'Having an affair, buying a fast car and looking tragic': Debunking the mid-life crisis myth
Is a midlife crisis a meltdown or something deeper? And how do you navigate it?
Country music star Tami Neilson rides high on global acclaim
BIG READ: The singer is in the midst of a New Zealand tour.
Escape with a five-day festival of big-name NZ writers, speakers and performers
Held October 12-16, there are talks, panel discussions, workshops and performances
Babe(s) with the power: Meet the cosplayers behind an NZ fantasy convention
It's a cocktail party, craft market, costume exhibition, two tea parties and fantasy ball
Hitting rock bottom: Ex-boozers on Dry July and beyond
Taking it to the limit: Many Kiwis give up grog only after suffering serious consequences
Drama, betrayal, sex: Behind Disco Bloodbath, a doco 'without limits'
The doco follows Auckland's iconic underground cabaret drag show Disco Bloodbath.
Getting it off their chest: Men share honest experiences of the blues for Men's Health Week
"It's hard to say 'are you okay?' if you don't have trust because their guard will be up."
Not your traditional comic: Josh Thomson on stage fright, how 7 Days helped shape a cultural identity
NZers now embrace comedians after tall poppy syndrome in the 1990s and early 2000s.
'Simultaneously savage and tender': Tom Sainsbury on his tour, the sensitivities of fame
"I sometimes put videos up and think 'why did you do that?', Tom Sainsbury says.
Marvellous Mr Mac: The teacher and author-illustrator winning over reluctant readers
Primary teacher Mr Mac writes to make kids laugh and to encourage reluctant readers.
Villains, laughs and long naps: Shorty St actors recount memories for anniversary
Many high profile Shorty actors over the years have originated, or grown up in, the Bay.
Prioritise yourself: How to stay on top of your mental health when you're scant on time and money
No matter how under the pump you are, prioritise yourself. Take mini-breaks and talk
'She is my amazing mum and I love her': Mums and their firstborns celebrate their bond
Mother's Day Q&A: Mums and their firstborn children talk about their special bond