Admittedly, the relationship between Britons and their Antipodean cousins hasn't always been as harmonious. The original settlers of New Zealand, the Maori, weren't overly keen on the arrival, several centuries later, of a host of British chancers, and 20 years of war ensued. But gradually the relationship between the peoples calmed, settled, and eventually became close.
Now there is enormous national pride in the Maori - hence the proposed new flag design, which incorporated a silver fern on a semi-black background. (That the Maori vote was heavily in support of the status quo only proves how integrated modern New Zealand really is.)
Nowhere, however, is the strength of the relationship between Britain and New Zealand more apparent than in times of conflict. New Zealand and Australian men poured over to Europe to support Britain in both World Wars. Thousands of Kiwi lives were lost at Gallipoli, Monte Cassino, in Crete, North Africa and the Greek and Italian peninsulas. New Zealand lost far more troops per capita in World War II than the UK and the Maori Battalion lost a huge proportion of the 36,000 who volunteered. We've been allies since, including in Malaya and Afghanistan.
Even today, many of the older generation of Kiwis call the UK "Home" and treasure thick books of beautiful photographs of British scenes, even if they were born and bred in New Zealand.
Is it surprising, then, that we voted to keep our flag with its reminder of British colonialism? Not a bit of it. New Zealand's political establishment might believe that distancing the country further from its Commonwealth heritage is a good thing. But I'm proud to say that the people think otherwise.
• Sir Paul Beresford is a Kiwi in the UK. He is the Conservative MP for Mole Valley
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