"I am the provider and the oppressed ... I am the role model and the embarrassment."
This is how fa'afafine Vili/Vilanda (Taofia Pelesasa) opens this moving examination of family, grief and the difficulties of coming-of-age.
But she's not the only one who has it rough: Vili's father (Dave Fane) mourns his wife, and bitterly regrets persuading her to move from Samoa to Auckland; Vili's brother Sione (Troy Tu'ua) gets bossed around; Vili's fa'afafine friends Shaniqua (Amanaki Prescott) and Dejavu (Shimpal Lelisi) no longer see their families.
The success of this play is its acknowledgment, sympathetically drawn out by Alison Quigan's direction, that everybody onstage hurts. In the aftermath of a crisis, all the family members feel undervalued without realising that those from whom they're seeking recognition are also feeling unrecognised.
The casual violence shocks, even as it's expected.