If you've ever been involved in organising a big surprise for someone you love, you'll know it's so much easier to do in your head!
My partner, Hayley, turned 30 a week ago. You need some back story to appreciate the pressure I was under here...
I turned 30 last year in August and Hayley threw me a surprise weekend at her family bach just out of Taupo. By surprise I mean I thought we were going there with four of our mates for a snowboarding weekend.
I went to another bach round the corner on the Friday night to borrow some snowboarding gear, knocked on the ranch-slider and when the curtain was pulled back there were all my closest friends and family. I swore profusely.
Over the next 24 hours more mates and family kept arriving and we had a big party on the Saturday night. She then revealed she'd been saving for the best part of six months, behind my back (we have a joint account) for a trip to Vanuatu.