Everyone has the right to tell their own truth and not have it told to them.
Recently, I have had the truth told to me by direct descendants of two very different, but somehow the same, cultures.
Three weeks ago, to the day, on the other side of the world, I stood inside a stunning church named after Saint Maximin, in what has to be one of the prettiest parts of the planet, Aix-en-Provence in Southern France.
For me it was the local korero that had been handed down from generation to generation that felt right for reasons that all the other historians and men of God, as well as the odd Hollywood movie could not convince me of.
The same can be said for the korero and whakapapa of Te Ranga, the battle site on Pyes Pa Rd, where we listened on Saturday to the version of events from direct descendants, and not from the lipstick version, painted on to our forefathers' faces to act as an excuse for confiscating lands that Tauranga is built on today.