Patriotism and nationhood are things we tend to associate with the past - the "glory days" when brave young Kiwi men left on battleships to fight for the flag and the free world in distant lands.
Since then we've had other seminal moments in history which have served to fuel our pride in being New Zealanders: Sir Ed knocking off Everest in 1953, Peter Snell knocking off world running records in the 1960s, taking a stand on South Africa's apartheid policy during the 1981 Springbok tour and then United States' nuclear weapons policy two years later.
The flag debate may be causing some division, but it has given us the opportunity to discover that as a nation we do actually care about the colours we stand under.
In 1987, we had World Cup rugby glory and in the 90s Sir Peter Blake generated national pride and New Zealand identity by showing the brilliant little guy could out-perform the wealthy big one.
But since then (with the exception of another Rugby World Cup in 2011 and the odd Olympic blaze of glory), the sorts of major events that generate and fuel the fire of nationhood have been few and far between.