It wasn't the Mother's Day weekend I imagined.
Standing on an empty highway in the dark and cold as firemen worked to extract dead bodies from a burned-out vehicle.
But as far as I was concerned the best Mother's Day gift ever was simply that I was able to return home to my family safely tucked up in their beds.
Tragically, this was not so for people involved in Saturday night's horror crash which left three people dead and several injured.
Nor was there any Mother's Day for Tracey O'Brien, the mother-of-two killed a year ago last May on the same stretch of road -- SH2 in Te Puna.