Unfortunately, we've already seen this style of disagreement in New Zealand politics.
Green MP Chloe Swarbrick has been open about the vitriolic comments she receives from people who disagree with her, a park bench was dedicated to National MP "Gerry Brownlee who hates Christchurch and everyone in it", while former MPs Clare Curran and Sarah Dowie have shared the impact of vilification on their mental health.
Dehumanising and caricaturing the people we disagree with politically tends to begin with politicians but that doesn't mean it won't stop there.
In fact, as we've seen in the United States, it's likely that this will trickle down to the rest of society with supporters of different politicians shocked that others could vote in a different direction.
Of course, strong democracies require healthy disagreement. Healthy disagreement, however, doesn't only ask us to air our differences, it also asks us to recognise the humanity of the person we disagree with.
It asks us not to see them as a caricature who only cares about the one issue you might be discussing but to recognise that they're a whole person with families, friends, and lives outside of that particular conversation.
The Prime Minister and Judith Collins gave a positive example of this when they paused during their final leaders' debate and complimented the person they were competing with for the top job.
Despite their political differences, they were happy to publicly praise one another. If we don't want to follow the example of the United States and become a divided society it's important we follow their example.
We need to find moments to recognise the person behind the policy position, compliment the lives of people we may disagree with, and refrain from imagining caricatures of people with different political opinions.
It won't be easy and requires listening with a posture of humility, but when I hear about the many broken friendships in the US, I'm convinced that it's worth it.
- Danielle van Dalen is a researcher at the Maxim Institute