Rotorua and Tauranga can be likened to a brother and sister.
They poke fun at each other, occasionally whine about what the other is up to and gets jealous when one gets something the other really wants.
But deep down, we are close enough to genuinely care about each other. Honestly.
It is true there has been a bit of mud flung between the two cities over recent years over such things as who gets the Bay of Plenty Steamers' home games and whether Tauranga can offer a good Maori cultural tourism experience.
But when the Rena cargo ship struck a reef last week and started to spill oil in our precious Bay of Plenty waters, here in Rotorua we were truly sad for our neighbours.