Halloween: Haunting tradition
Halloween in New Zealand has become an excuse for shopkeepers to flog off costumes and lollies so the local kids can take part in an out-of-season American autumn ritual, but it can serve a useful purpose.
Halloween, or All Hallows' Eve, comes just before All Hallows' Day, or All Saints' Day. This is the traditional day for remembering all the good people, now dead, whose work and example moulded our lives for the better - our caring parents, dedicated teachers, kind neighbours; and those who dedicated their lives for the betterment of all - Whina Cooper, Michael Joseph Savage, Waitotara GP Arthur Harvey, Suzanne Aubert, Apirana Ngata and hundreds more.
On the other hand, Halloween, the evening before All Saints' Day, is a time to remember those in our lives who tried to help us but left scars in our psyche, the parent who got drunk, the harsh schoolteacher, the overbearing boss. The bad memories of their actions can still swirl around in our heads like those trick-or-treat ghosts swirling down the street wrapped in old bed sheets.
But we repay the little devils at our door with kindness, and as they depart down our driveways with a handful of lollies (or healthier grapes or oranges), our own unhappy ghosts can depart along with them, allowing us the next day to concentrate on celebrating the memory of the good people in our lives, and imitating their example for the rest of the year.