Step Four: Pass your bigotry on to your children. Children catch it from their parents and relatives. Talking trash about people is contagious. Do it often enough, and your children will grow up believing that is the way to do things. Warning: there will be a point when your children grow up, go out into the world and discover that most of what they were told is not supported by experience. Some may even come to have friends or marry partners who are the type of people you have always held strong views about.
Step Five: Resist all attempts by well-meaning people to change your mind. Do not read articles written by scientists and academics. These may contain outlandish ideas, such as there is no such thing as race and that in fact, we all share the same basic DNA and have much more in common than we have differences.
Step Six: It is important to ignore facts, as they get in the way of bigotry. Avoid any internet material that might offer a view contrary to your own. Take a tip from the anti-vaxxer stalwarts and avoid exposure to any forms of scientific evidence which suggest you might be wrong.
Step Seven: Develop a solid core of ignorance. This has nothing to do with actual IQ. This is ignorance in a different form that can be worn like armour to deflect any logical interpretation of how prejudice functions.
Step Eight: Only read things that echo your own thoughts. This ensures there is no reason to ever see anything that might, in some small way, challenge your views on the world.
Step Nine: If Step Eight is not working for you - just give up reading. People who never read anything by choice (not because they cannot read) can feel safely cocooned in a life where nothing can intrude that might disrupt their bitter little world of hate and loathing.
Step Ten: Hold on to your conviction that you are right and respond to every challenge to your bigoted views by vigorously asserting your right to hate on specific sections of the population on the flimsy premise that other people do it so that makes it okay.
Step Eleven: Say something like, “Some people I know are (select one or all of the following) - a different skin colour, religion, sexuality, class, foreign, disabled, have mental health problems, are poor - so when I say nasty things about them behind their backs, that means I am only a ‘wee bit prejudiced’”.
Step Twelve: Being a bigot requires a commitment to holding on to your prejudices by following Steps One to Eleven with a passionate disregard for facts, evidence, compassion or understanding.
Tel is Terry Sarten: writer, musician, social worker and satarista. Feedback: tgs@inspire.net.nz.