"Think like a wise man but communicate in the language of the people." — William Butler Yeats
I believe the value of wise communication can be taught. We often have something important to say or a truth to share, but if we don't say it in a way that openspeople's minds to hear us and to consider acting on it, then we might as well not be saying it at all.
We need to think wisely but communicate in everyday language of the people we want to communicate with. I have talked with people who have sought help for many years and I know the most precious times were the times I have not said a word. I have listened to their hearts and found this makes a greater connection than talking at or to them. Many people simply want to be heard.
My Angels remind me that when we connect with our hearts not our tongues, we each see the world and all that is going on around us in different ways. This could be a guide as to how we communicate better with others. Mark Twain once said, "If you have nothing to say, say nothing."
I believe communication leads to community, for me that means to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing of each other. So my friends, maybe in the week ahead we can create better intimacy and valuing of each other by communicating in easy ways — saying things that open people's minds and hearts. Listening twice as much as we speak, giving time for others to share their stories and needs with us. Also being mindful of staying focused on the things that promote advancement, which will help us to open the doors of opportunity with confidence. Arohanui. — Shirley-Joy
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