The decision to set up the funeral home came after Steve was unable to find work when the couple moved back to Whanganui from Hawke's Bay to be near ageing parents.
Tonya, whose background is mainly in property administration, quickly picked up a job with a real estate company and eventually Steve decided to return to his previous profession as a funeral director.
He started working in the industry in early 1996 after being in the air force and working in prisons in Whanganui and Hawke's Bay and is formally trained, gaining top awards in both funeral directing and embalming.
"It was quite unusual as I started working as a funeral director and only a year later I bought the funeral home which was at the time the biggest in Hawke's Bay," Steve said.
"I sold that 10 years later and managed cemeteries and crematoriums for the council then went back to funeral directing."
Steve says families often have strong ties to particular funeral homes so starting a new funeral home can be quite difficult.
"That's changing with the younger generation as they're more prepared to shop around and also with the influx of new people to Whanganui who have no set viewpoint when it comes to funeral homes. The challenge is to carve out my little niche.
"When I started funeral directing, I had no experience of death so I based everything on what I would like to have happen if it was me or my family and that has shaped the way I approach funeral directing. It's not about me, it's about listening to and responding to the needs of individual families."
Tonya says funeral directing is Steve's passion.
"It's where he feels most comfortable and can do the most good," she said.
"We see a lot of people stop and look at what's going on with the building. It's had a chequered past and we understand it was once known as a party house but most recently as a jeweller's.
"We've had really positive reactions from people who ask us about it. They're pleased we're keeping one of the street's iconic buildings and bringing another funeral option to Whanganui."