Children can be sensitive about what they can't do, and this is made more obvious when they observe their peers.
Let them know it is okay to not know how to do things because school is a great place to learn new things. Develop a routine for your child once they get to school.
"First we'll say hello to the teacher, then hang up your bag on your special hook and then choose an activity to do."
Give them a hug and a smile, don't let them see you anxious. Tell your child when you are leaving the classroom.
There may be initial distress, but in the long run it serves your child much better if they know you have gone and do not need to look for you.
Look pleased and excited when you pick them up. Let them tell you about their day in their own time.
Remember that children are good observers but poor interpreters, they will sometimes need reassurance to understand things that happen. Hold back from asking lots of questions.
Fuel them up. Give them a healthy breakfast before school and eat it together if possible.
Before the big day arrives your child needs to be able to:
-Be responsible for all their own clothing. Make sure they choose clothes and shoes they can fasten themselves and understand what to do if they get too hot or cold. Talk to them about putting their clothes in sensible places at school, so they can find them again.
-Be thoroughly independent going to the toilet and washing their hands afterwards.
-Open and close their bag and lunchbox and understand which food is for morning tea, and which is for lunch and what to do with their rubbish. Pack their lunch together so they know what is inside.
-Ask a grown-up for help. Explain that the teacher is there to help. Give them examples of the words and phrases they will need to use to help the teacher understand what is bothering them.
-Know how to make friends with other children. Talk to your child about making friends and about being a good one. Children can be mean so pass on skills for deflecting and avoiding bullies.
-Understand that they need to do what the teacher says, and that children have to take turns talking and doing activities with the teacher.
Help your child get organised. Establish a school-day routine so they know what is expected of them, and make sure you keep a consistent bedtime routine.
Keep your expectations realistic. Remember that school is about fun in these early years.
On September 3, SKIP is hosting a "Getting Ready for School" seminar for parents and teachers.
There are two opportunities to attend 10am or 7pm, at the Central Baptist Community Centre 285 Wicksteed St.
To register or for more parenting information contact Liza and Lynette on ph/text 027 626 1404 or at skipwhanganui@xtra.co.nz.
