I bombed my first ever intelligence test in 1999. I was applying to join the Australian Army Reserve and was told by the recruitment psychologist that my score was so out of kilter with my university grades that they had to 'waiver' my test result.
Despite getting pretty good grades at university, I took this slight against my IQ to heart - I thought that this meant I was unintelligent and it was a real knock to my confidence at the time.
I see similar reactions in some young people nowadays. Youth who flunk their maths exams or can't quite get their essays right feel that they are dumb and not at all academic. It frustrates me, because there are a variety of ways of looking at ability.
For instance, instead take this question from an intelligence test: "John's mother sent him to the store to get 9 large cans of peaches. John could only carry 2 cans at a time. How many trips to the store did John have to make?"
Instead of figuring out the answer, I would wonder what John's mother was making with the peaches - perhaps a peach cobbler - and whether I could help John to carry the cans. My husband on the other hand would be far more capable and interested in simply stating the answer - 5.