Despite MPs getting into a spat over designer clothing, real estate and - of all things - accusations of racism a few days ago, we head towards Waitangi weekend and people do not seem to be holding their breath the way they have in the past.
There will be a gathering of activists, politicians, security staff, police and armed forces for commemorative and enforcement reasons. Chances are there will be a political stunt, but these forces will not be required. Some would wonder why we bother. But we must.
Having recently visited a few countries where indigenous rights and history are still contentious, I have come to the conclusion that what we have in New Zealand in terms of race relations is the nirvana many people strive for.
Despite the feeling that many in our country long for a return to a time when race issues were not seen and never heard, we have got it good.
I acknowledge that many tangata whenua will be thinking, "That is easy for you to say, Pakeha", but discussions, negotiations, protests, court cases, legislation, settlements, apologies and decisions made over recent decades have taken the heat out of many a debate.