Whanganui Chronicle
  • Whanganui Chronicle home
  • Latest news
  • Sport
  • Business
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Property
  • Death notices
  • Classifieds

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • On The Up
  • Sport
  • Business
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Residential property listings
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology

Locations

  • Taranaki
  • National Park
  • Whakapapa
  • Ohakune
  • Raetihi
  • Taihape
  • Marton
  • Feilding
  • Palmerston North

Media

  • Video
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-Editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

Weather

  • New Plymouth
  • Whanganui
  • Palmertson North
  • Levin

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / Whanganui Chronicle

I love this place, now get me out of here

By Eva Bradley
Whanganui Chronicle·
14 Sep, 2012 06:00 PM3 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

I've been having a love affair. It started long distance with the help of some old-fashioned romance and a bit of modern communication over the internet, and very rapidly resulted in air fares and long-distance travel to connect on a more personal level.

As with so many love affairs ignited by imagination and fuelled by idealism and unrealistic romantic expectations, the reality of India is taking its toll.

We're two weeks in and, at times, the passion hasn't just cooled, it has frozen right over. Which really is saying something when you're riding on the back of a camel in the pulsating heat of the Rajasthan desert.

I was warned that my relationship with India was likely to be a love/hate one, but in the usual triumph of hope over experience I didn't quite believe it. Having now seen what appears to be at least half the country's population squatting in my path while attending quite publicly to the call of nature (and reluctantly being forced to join them on occasion), there are now no secrets between this place and me.

Just as any holiday will force those in a relationship together more closely than is comfortable, India and I have simply had enough of each other.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Dirty hotel rooms, wet heat, late trains, and a population that engages in the unrelenting and shameless hustle of tourists like it's a national sport have worn me down.

At times, the sight of so many lives packed so tightly together and so punishingly deprived of even the most basic human dignities feels set to totally break me. What you see from the dusty windows of slow-moving trains at first makes your eyes pop in utter disbelief, then it makes your heart crack.

The hoped-for happy, relaxing holiday disappears down the drain in a way you can only wish the sewage on the street would.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

But every time I decide I can't possibly continue my relationship with India, she will throw me the most wonderful peace offering.

Today I was wined and dined on some of the finest cuisine I can ever recall eating, I was taken shopping for pretty cotton frocks and strappy summer sandals. India sat me beside a glorious pool built in the remains of an ancient fort on the edge of the Arabian Sea and then she bloody well seduced me all over again with a hotel room that was once the bedroom of a maharajah and his many wives.

Of course I forgave her.

The trouble, is we've been involved for long enough now for me to know that the warm love fug that lightly covers us today could just as easily turn into a polluted haze tomorrow, or even a monsoon downpour.

None of us is without our faults though and, while India is high-maintenance and prone to wildly unpredictable mood swings, she is beautiful in her diversity, patient and accepting of her faults, and full of disarming surprises.

Despite our spats, the love affair will continue, but long-distance (thank God).

Save

    Share this article

Latest from Whanganui Chronicle

Whanganui Chronicle

$3.2m confirmed for rural health centre

07 Jul 09:14 PM
Whanganui Chronicle

Taihape books return to premier final

07 Jul 05:01 PM
Premium
Opinion

Kevin Page: Semi-retired life and the quest for dry shoes

07 Jul 05:00 PM

From early mornings to easy living

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from Whanganui Chronicle

$3.2m confirmed for rural health centre

$3.2m confirmed for rural health centre

07 Jul 09:14 PM

Raetihi's existing health facility will be transformed into a 'wellness centre'.

Taihape books return to premier final

Taihape books return to premier final

07 Jul 05:01 PM
Premium
Kevin Page: Semi-retired life and the quest for dry shoes

Kevin Page: Semi-retired life and the quest for dry shoes

07 Jul 05:00 PM
Kaierau end Border’s reign, secure finals spot

Kaierau end Border’s reign, secure finals spot

07 Jul 05:00 PM
Solar bat monitors uncover secrets of Auckland’s night sky
sponsored

Solar bat monitors uncover secrets of Auckland’s night sky

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • Whanganui Chronicle e-edition
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Subscribe to the Whanganui Chronicle
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • NZME Events
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP