Maybe, just maybe, we're finally learning.
There are encouraging noises coming from women's groups, who are suggesting that despite bracing for a surge in domestic violence around the Rugby World Cup, there has so far been no sign of the suggested spike in the number of incidents.
New Zealanders have traditionally never handled defeat that well - there's no shortage of research to show a rise in the number of violent incidents on nights where the All Blacks have failed to get over the line.
But this time around, things appear to be different.
Perhaps it's a wider symptom of the exuberance and good grace with which most New Zealanders appear to have embraced the tournament - there appears to be a desire to be the best hosts we can be.