It was then that pseudo-Christian cult leader Choi Tae-min, who had set up his own religious group known as the Church of Eternal Life, befriended the grief-stricken and isolated young woman. He told her that her mother had appeared to him in a dream, asking him to help her daughter, and she fell for it.
Choi became her mentor, a relationship that became even closer after her own father was also assassinated in 1978. The lonely young woman also grew close to Choi's daughter, Soon-sil, who was only four years younger -- and that bond persisted even after Choi Tae-min's death in 1994.
Meanwhile, Park Geun-hye was getting on with her life, getting elected to her now democratic country's National Assembly in 1998 -- but her top aide was Choi Soon-sil's ex-husband. She has been in the Choi family's clutches for her entire adult life, and they really hit the jackpot when Park won the presidential election in 2012.
Choi had no official position in Park's government, but she and her rather bizarre inner circle -- including her personal trainer, her personal gigolo, and a K-pop musical video director -- had direct access to the president. Choi, who had no security clearance, regularly received secret government documents and even edited the President's speeches.
Choi Soon-sil also used her advance knowledge of the Ministry of Culture, Sports, and Tourism's budgets to steer her cronies into the right bids for government contracts. She also shook down major South Korean corporations for millions of dollars on the strength of her claimed influence over the President. In total, some $70 million is alleged to have gone to Choi's two "non-profit" foundations.
Whether Park Geun-hye was aware of these "donations" is unknown, and the authorities have not yet gone through the books of the foundations to see if Choi was draining off funds for her personal use. But on the latter count, at least, suspicions are strong.
What triggered Choi's downfall was her attempt to get her not-too-bright daughter admitted to the prestigious Ewha Women's University, claiming she had the President's support. The girl was accepted, but the students launched a public protest against this breach of the university's rules. Getting into the right university is as important in Korea as it is in Japan, and fairness in the selection process is sacred.
At this point, late last month, Choi and her daughter gave up and left for Germany -- but she left an unencrypted laptop behind in her abandoned office in Seoul with all the details of her manipulations. It was found by cable TV network JTBC, and the fat was in the fire.
Choi is probably going to jail, her daughter is not going to university, and President Park is going ... where? She has 15 months left of her five-year term, and the opposition would prefer to leave her in power, bleeding all over her own party's credibility, rather than face an uncertain election now. But she is finished politically, and that just feels sad.
�Gwynne Dyer is an independent journalist whose articles are published in 45 countries.
