I WAS in to get a new pair of spectacles the other day.
They were for long vision so I did ask whether it would enable me to see further into the future, but alas no.
As a visionary who views the world through optimisticals this was disappointing but optimism is also available in the small print, so I put on my reading glasses and perused some articles in the Guardian and Atlantic.
The first reported, as if it was a momentous discovery, on a study that showed optimism is good for relationships. Well, yahoo. Apparently forecasting satisfaction and predicting happiness with relationships into the future is a solid predictor that it is more likely to actually turn out like that.
Surprise, surprise - thinking about happy endings maintains commitment. I assume the professor who published this got a grant for this research. Looked at another way, it seems obvious that any relationship built on reciprocal doom is bound to be doomed - unless mutually assured, equal-opportunity doom provides some kind of buffer against romantic delusions.