"They touched our behinds and grabbed between our legs. They touched us everywhere, so my girlfriend wanted to get out of the crowd. When I turned around one guy grabbed my bag and ripped it off my body."
There were 379 complaints to the police, 40 per cent of which involved sexual assault, and two accusations of rape.
Only 31 men were arrested in connection with these offences, a police failure that caused popular outrage. But the incendiary fact, which the police at first declined to reveal, was that 18 of the 31 men arrested were asylum-seekers, and all but five were Muslims. So there was a firestorm of popular protest about the attacks (which also happened on a smaller scale in Stuttgart and Hamburg).
But what on earth made those young Muslim men, the beneficiaries of Germany's generosity, think they could sexually attack young German women in public (and rob them while they were doing it)?
They were not professional thieves, and I very much doubt that they would sexually attack young Muslim women in public if they were back home. I suspect they were mostly village boys who still believe the popular Middle Eastern stereotypes about good Muslim girls whom you must not harass, and "loose" Western women who are fair game for sexual assault.
I once lived in Istanbul for a while with my wife and two little boys, and we had the same experience as most other Westerners: when my wife was out with me or with the children, she was treated with respect. When she was out alone, she was the target of constant sexual harassment.
At least once a day, as young men passed her in the crowded streets, she would suddenly experience the full frontal grab and, if she protested, they would simply laugh at her. So I taught her what a Turkish woman would say if the same thing happened, and it did help. She still got molested, but when she rebuked the attackers in Turkish they were overwhelmed with shame, and disappeared into the crowd as fast as possible.
This was back when Istanbul had only three million people (it now has 14 million), but already my Turkish friends were moaning about how their city was being "village-ised" by people migrating from the countryside. Even Turkish women who looked too "Western" were being harassed, and they blamed the ex-villagers.
When you take in a million refugees, more than half of them from the Middle East, you may expect them to include a few religious fanatics who may be or become terrorists. They will also include a considerably larger number of ignorant hicks who think it is not a disgrace to attack non-Muslim girls sexually.
No good deed goes unpunished, and this is part of the price Germany will pay for its generosity. It's not an unbearable price, even if it involves one or two more terrorist attacks than would otherwise have occurred. In a few years most of the Muslim men who attacked women in Cologne will have figured out being free, as German women are, does not mean being immoral or freely available.
-Gwynne Dyer is an independent journalist whose articles are published in 45 countries.
