A couple of days before Anzac Day, it is interesting to reflect on this.
Last year, I represented New Zealand at the Anzac Day commemorations in Berlin, and it seemed unusual to be celebrating with Germans, Turks and Italians, as well as countries who had fought with the Allies in World Wars I and II. The Turks have a fond regard for New Zealanders, despite their incredulity at our celebrating a massive loss, and in a battle where we were the invading force. Yet they pledge to guard and protect our fallen soldiers who lie beneath their soil.
We visited Arras in Northern France, where Kiwi tunnellers from the mines in Waihi had been sent to extend underground caverns that would hold 27,000 troops for a surprise attack on the German offensive line.
Each portion of the tunnel was named after a New Zealand town so the tunnellers could easily identify their location on a map they carried in their heads. Palmerston North was north of Wellington and west of Napier etc ... and so they could make their way around the maze of tunnels in the dark.
In Caterpillar Valley, we visited a memorial for New Zealand soldiers not far from a spot where my great-uncle was killed by machine-gun fire.The water-tower position of the machine-gun still stands. The memorial is erected in commemoration of Kiwi troops who liberated the village from German soldiers, and, so I am told, New Zealanders still don't have to buy a drink in the local pub, 100 years after the battle.
It is not just the courage, fighting prowess, tactics and skills we are renowned for. It is the humour, friendliness and easy-going, Mickey-taking personality that has become the hallmark of the New Zealand character and which makes other nationalities think warmly of our countrymen and women.
My hitchhiking house guest was taken by the proliferation of war memorials and their condition. They act as a record of sacrifice, village by village, and the huge toll World War I, in particular, took on such a young country. Remember, one in 10 of our young men served overseas and 20 per cent were killed. All of this was for a war on the other side of the world and driven by a sense of loyalty and kinship that is hard to quantify today.
The young fella leaves New Zealand at five in the morning on Anzac Day - 101 years after the battle for Gallipoli, which it commemorates.
He won't get to a dawn service, but he tells me he has truly witnessed the Anzac spirit.