Half his possessions are in storage, he turns down out-of-town work and is reluctant to have a pet - living in Whanganui's Anzac Pde flood zone is having a devastating effect on Gus Murray.
"I feel my life has been put on hold and I'm in a permanent state of limbo."
He told Horizons regional councillors he felt isolated and abandoned as he spoke to his Long-term Plan submission in Whanganui on May 24.
The managed retreat option the council offers to people in his situation is "pitiful" and its communication with affected people through media announcements is pathetic, he said.
That approach amounted to doing as little as possible for residents, and he has accepted that the Whanganui community also doesn't care.