And church leaders wonder why they struggle for relevance.
There was a time, of course, when homosexuality was judged a heinous sin by clerics - and a crime by secular courts.
But it seems eternal damnation is no longer on offer to the gay community - rather now it is the hand of friendship extended by Pope Francis, who wants the Catholic Church to debate gay rights.
Meanwhile, the rest of civilisation - including the gay sector - just gets on with things, perhaps feeling the blessing of the church isn't as necessary as once supposed.
The day before the church assembly, America's national sport drafted its first openly gay player.
Gridiron star Michael Sam made history as he got the nod for a spot in the National Football League with the St Louis Rams.
Yes, even the United States with its conservative Christian right-wing rump is trying to keep up with the play.
Sure, Sam's selection made big news ... but not quite as sensational as it would once have been.
Meanwhile, watch this space (but don't hold your breath) to see if the church eventually stumbles into the 21st century.
