Aside from the questionable nature of the comments - no pejorative terms or epithets and no stereotypical generalisations about blacks - these were remarks made in private.
MOST of us are susceptible on occasion to the entertainment of melodrama. You know, the straightforward type where you get to hiss and boo your contempt for the villain and feel good when he gets his comeuppance.
Such a morality play was recently on our TV and became the topic du jour for Americans when an 80-year-old billionaire owner of the Los Angeles Clippers basketball team was caught out on a leaked tape of his private conversation with his 31-year-old girlfriend. The young woman, V Stiviano, aka Vanessa Perez, whose arresting charms captured the elderly Donald Sterling's imagination to the gifted tunes of two Bentleys, one Ferrari and a $1.8 million condo, denies leaking the tape.
The leaked tape contains a quarrel between Sterling (pictured) and the young woman that was apparently sparked by his displeasure with Stiviano posting pictures of herself online with basketball great Magic Johnson and Dodgers baseball outfielder Matt Kemp, both African-Americans.
In the recording at the centre of the scandal, the man purported to be Sterling tells the woman she "can sleep with" black people but should not "promote" it publicly. "You can sleep with blacks. You can bring them in, you can do whatever you want. The little I ask you is not to promote it ... and not to bring them to my games," the man says.