In this special series, guest writer Dr Libby Weaver shares her health insights.
We often hear that our thoughts shape our reality, yet how often do we consider the profound impact our self-image has on our physical health? Self-image – how you perceive yourself in terms of your appearance, abilities,
In a world dominated by external standards of beauty, success and achievement, understanding this connection is vital. The way you view yourself can trigger a cascade of biochemical reactions, influencing everything from stress hormones to immune function and beyond. Self-image isn’t just a psychological construct – it’s deeply intertwined with your body’s physiology. When you hold self-denigrating beliefs, your brain can too easily interpret these as a threat, activating your sympathetic nervous system, or the “fight or flight” response. This reaction prompts the release of stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline.
Self criticism and your health
While these hormones are crucial for short-term survival, prolonged exposure due to persistent self-criticism can disrupt your health. Elevated cortisol levels can lead to chronic inflammation, disrupted sleep, suppressed immune function and even contribute to your body getting the message to store rather than efficiently utilise body fat.
On the other hand, cultivating an authentic self-image activates the parasympathetic nervous system – the “rest and digest” state – which promotes relaxation and repair. Uplifting thoughts and self-compassion trigger the release of serotonin and oxytocin, often called the “feel-good” hormones. These chemicals enhance mood, support restful sleep, strengthen immunity and even improve digestion. This doesn’t mean you need to put a positive spin on everything – being honest is more helpful. It’s just as essential to our health to allow ourselves to feel the whole spectrum of emotions that come with being in an Earth Suit. Yet, there is a big difference between allowing whatever we feel to be okay and harshly criticising ourselves about what we see as our shortcomings.
Think about the last time you looked in the mirror. Did your gaze gravitate toward perceived flaws? Whether it’s the lines on your face or the shape of your body, this habitual self-criticism can subtly influence your daily choices in ways that perpetuate low energy and poor health. Dissatisfaction with your appearance can lead to emotional eating (which is usually of ultra-processed foods), which further impact your energy and mood in a lousy way. A downward spiralling self-image might discourage you from exercising, a key factor in maintaining mental and physical health. Ruminating on self-criticism often interferes with sleep, disrupting your body’s ability to repair and recharge. This cycle typically reinforces awful feelings you have about yourself and creates a biochemical environment marked by stress and fatigue, keeping you trapped in a loop of exhaustion.
How to improve your self-image
Shifting toward a life-affirming self-image can transform not only your mindset but also your body’s biochemistry. When you focus on your strengths, talents and inherent worth, your body responds with a biochemical symphony that supports vitality. Supportive and encouraging self-talk and self-acceptance boosts dopamine levels, enhancing motivation and pleasure. Acts of self-care, like movement, release endorphins that help to alleviate stress and foster calm. Viewing food as a way to fuel and honour your body encourages you to choose nutrient-rich meals that sustain energy and vitality. Self-compassion can also quiet the inner critic, allowing for more restorative sleep and improved recovery.
The words you use when speaking to yourself matter deeply. Every thought signals to your body whether it’s in a safe, supportive environment or facing a threat. Persistent self-criticism – “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never measure up” – keeps your body on high alert, leading to chronic stress and burnout. Replacing these thoughts with affirming statements like “I am doing my best” or “I am enough” can help shift your body into a state of inner balance. These small yet significant changes in self-talk reduce the production of stress hormones, allowing your body to prioritise healing and regeneration.
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Advertise with NZME.If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of self-criticism, know that change is possible. Treat yourself with the same kindness you’d offer a close friend. Redirect harsh, destructive thoughts to supportive ones when they arise. Take charge of this. Appreciate how your body works for you rather than how it looks. Write down three things you’re grateful for about your body each day, whether it’s your hands that create or your legs that carry you through life. View food, movement and rest as acts of self-care, not punishment. Spend time in nature, as it has a grounding, calming effect that reduces stress and restores perspective. Lengthen your breaths – especially your exhalations – to activate your parasympathetic nervous system and promote calm. If needed, seek support from a therapist, counsellor, psychologist or coach who can provide tools and guidance to help you build a healthier relationship with yourself.
Your self-image is more than just a reflection of how you feel about yourself – it’s a powerful determinant of your physical health. By fostering a compassionate and precious view of yourself, you’re not only changing your mindset but also creating a biochemical environment that supports greater energy, vitality and resilience. The next time you catch yourself in a loop of self-criticism, pause. Remember: how you see yourself matters. With kindness, self-care and patience, you can transform both your self-image and your biochemistry for the better.
Dr Libby Weaver PhD is a nutritional biochemist, 13 times bestselling author and international keynote speaker. For more on supporting yourself inside and out visit Drlibby.com
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